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Intimacy
Today I spent some time at the columbarium with my Dad's ashes. It was just me and him (my memory of him, his ghost, who really knows). For me, this felt intensely intimate, I brought my lunch and a crossword puzzle, and talked with him about my life and crossword puzzle clues. I was not planning to share this moment with anyone else, yet it feels important to demonstrate that intimacy comes in many forms. Being tuned into yourself, remembering a loved one, and sharing time with another are all ways to find closeness. |